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Attitude = 100%

By Sandra Rae Hymel

Unity Minister

If it is true that we draw to us all of our experiences, this implies that we attract the painful, as well as the joyful, experiences. Or, as stated in Job 4:14: “That which I feared has come upon me.”

Does this mean, then, that a child born with deformities has attracted this reality? Or that starving people in our world drew to them starvation? Does it mean people tortured in the holocaust, killed in 9/11, or victimized by hurricane Katrina attracted these atrocities? I believe we err grievously when we oversimplify in this way.

Too often we hear a well-meaning spiritual practitioner chiding someone who is facing difficulty by saying, “What is it in your consciousness that drew this issue to you?”

Such an application of the law of attraction is what I call “New Age sin”—the erroneous application of a basic truth. The story told in John 9:1-5 illustrates why: “As he (Jesus) went along he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, ‘Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?’ ‘Neither this man nor his parents sinned,’ Jesus answered, ‘but that happened so that the work of God might be manifested in his life.’” In other words, this turn of events occurred to open the way for a greater manifestation of God.

At the heart of adversity lies opportunity—the opportunity to choose an attitude that demonstrates the Christ-power in each of us. This Christ-power stems from our faith in God active in the heart of all humankind.

Wars, earthquakes, famines, the passing of loved ones, even the downsizing of jobs are very much part of our life experience. The critical question is, What is our attitude in the midst of these experiences? Do we choose to grow through them or just go through them? Jesus said, “Such things must happen … yet see to it that you are not alarmed. … for all these things are but the beginning of birth pains” (Mt. 24:6-8). In other words, There is nothing to fear, for God is here! God, the good, is forever present and always creating new beginnings from seeming chaos.

In the face of any challenge, we can ask, What is my attitude toward this person or experience? At any given moment, we can choose an experience of heaven or hell. “For as a man thinks within himself, so is he.” (Prov. 23:7).

We might say that attitude = 100 percent! That is, your attitude toward each of life’s experiences determines 100 percent of the reward you reap. In fact, if you add together the numerical position in the alphabet of each letter in the word attitude, the numbers equal 100!

A – 1
T – 20
T – 20
I – 9
T – 20
U – 21
D – 4
E – 5  
100 = ATTITUDE = 100%

Some of the most powerful stories of the importance of attitude have been told by survivors of the Nazi concentration camps. In Viktor E. Frankl’s inspiring book, Man’s Search for Meaning, he writes: “We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” [p86]

Unity co-founder Myrtle Fillmore advised many who came to her for prayer to “count it all joy.” She saw problems as the gateway to growth. She once wrote to a Truth student, “Count it all joy—all those personal disappointments in people, even Truth students, because they have given you the impetus to rely upon your indwelling Lord.” She also wrote, “When one door closes another opens, because God always opens new avenues of blessings when former conditions pass away.” And finally, “The trials of today are stepping-stones over which you pass to a glorious destiny.”  [Torch Bearer to Light the Way by Neal Vahle p75]

It doesn’t matter how the experience comes to you; you are in charge of your attitude toward it.

Even when your beloved moves through the life event we call “death,” you have a choice in how to grieve. The Aramaic word for death,  meta, means “not present here, but elsewhere.” You can get angry with God or with your beloved—or you can give thanks for wonderful memories of the time you shared and pass on to others the gift that person was to you. It is only natural to experience anger, blame , or sorrow in grieving a loved one. However, in time, you have the opportunity to choose a new attitude that will move you on to a new phase of living.

Each one of us is God in expression. The great 13th century mystic, Meister Eckhart, said, “God did not become man in just one single individual. He has taken on human nature totally—therefore, He dwells in every person.”  [Meister Eckart's way to Cosmic Consciousness by K.o. Schmidt p58]

You, dear friend, are God’s beloved daughter or son—special, unique and important. You have every reason to walk 100 percent with an attitude of DELIGHT!

D-ivine child of God that you are! Temple of the Holy Spirit!

E-nthuse yourself with God, infill all you do with the Flame of Spirit!

L-ove your life! Live your Love!

I-llumine your path! Light up the darkness!

G-ratitude is your attitude as you count your blessings!

H-umble is your stance in the face of challenges!

T-rue to your Self always! DELIGHT that …

You were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within you.

 

 

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